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Talk So They Buy

They don’t want what I thought they wanted


Conscious Growth Creators

By Ian Efford

Hi Reader!

Welcome back to my newsletter. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to read this edition!


There’s a funny thing that happens when you think you know your audience inside and out.

You start building solutions in your head. You start assuming their problems, their dreams, and their sticking points.

You stop asking real questions because you’re too busy answering them yourself.

That’s where I found myself 6 months ago, and again just a few weeks ago.

And all the while, I was solving problems that weren’t actually problems.

Not for the people I cared about serving.

It Was Working... Kind Of

At first, I didn’t notice it.

My content was landing okay. Actually, some videos were going "viral."

People were saying I was hitting the nail on the head in the comment section of each post. But when it came to action (or buying), they didn't budge.

The offers weren’t wrong. They just weren’t urgent.

I solved "nice-to-solve" problems. Not problems my audience needed to solve. The difference between the two is that one results in a polite no and the other a passionate yes.

Until I Had Real Conversations

So I went back to basics.

No fancy funnels, like every other person is doing on LinkedIn. Just real conversations with real people.

After five interviews, I started hearing the same thing over and over:

"I don't know how to speak to my audience for each offer I create."

"I don't know when someone is ready to buy or what the tipping point actually is."

And just like that, the ground shifted under my feet.

Everything I thought I knew about what they needed wasn’t wrong, exactly. It was just... shallow.

Once you hear what your people actually need, you can’t unhear it.

You can’t go back to building products or services based on your assumptions.

And I'll be honest:

It’s uncomfortable to admit when you’ve missed the mark, especially when you've spent months polishing the wrong thing.

But here's the biggest thing I'm learning:

My audience’s actual problems won't always scream for attention. Sometimes, you have to listen between the lines.

I have to notice the questions they’re too embarrassed to ask out loud.

That’s where the best offers are born.

And even better, that's where conversations that lead to client relationships happen.


And that's all! I hope you enjoyed and learned something from this edition.

Take action right now using the ideas above, and let me know if you have any questions.

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Until next time.

All the best,

Ian Efford
Your Growth Partner

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Talk So They Buy

In this newsletter, you'll discover the exact techniques to bring clarity and help you craft messaging that wins your best-fit clients over. I share my 7 years of experience interviewing buyers and tailoring messaging to their real needs.

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